Author Darlene J. Conard

As I stretched my hand toward the delicate oil bottle on the kitchen counter, I noticed the golden liquid within had diminished considerably. The remnants swirled softly near the bottom, catching the light in a shimmering dance. This made me think of the Parable of the Ten Virgins in the gospel of Matthew 25:1-13. Five of them had their lamps filled to the brim with oil, glowing brightly, while the other five faced the dire consequence of having empty lamps, their light extinguished and hopes dimmed.

The blunt contrast between the diligent preparation I once embraced and the neglect I experienced played on repeat in my mind. Just two weeks prior, I was overwhelmed, caught in a swirling tide of fatigue and restlessness, a state that seemed unshakable. A heavy weariness permeated my body, stretching beyond physical exhaustion to invade my thoughts and spirit.

 The burden can become complicated when others lean on us heavily—relying on our strength, resolve, and emotional support. It saps our energy, leaving us spiritually, mentally, and physically drained. Reflecting on this, I recognized the importance of balance and setting boundaries; giving too much of myself was draining me. God replied, “You are pouring so much into others, Darlene, that you are running low on oil. It was then I knew I had to seek the face of God with everything in me to be refilled.

Sometimes, God may call us to step back and create distance, allowing others the space and opportunity to seek Him on their own. This intentional withdrawal encourages their faith journeys, prompting them to explore and deepen their relationship with God.

“But they that wait upon the LORD shall  renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” Isaiah 40:31 KJV

Feel free to forward it to anyone you wish.  My mission is to encourage everyone to follow our Lord Jesus Christ with all their heart, soul, mind, and strength. ©Darlene J. Conard Vision Ministries 2024.   This may not be republished or used without the author’s written consent. The photograph is AI-generated. Darlene J. Conard is also affiliated with Glory Carrier Ministries.

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