Author Darlene J. Conard

While washing the dishes, I wondered why some individuals, no matter how hard I’ve tried, remain unpleased with me. I cannot win for losing, and I’m sick of trying! Lord, why is that? I thought. Frustrated and weary, I drained the few dishes left in the rinse water.

Picture yourself in the midst of an intense race, your heart pounding and sweat pouring down your brow as you push with every ounce of strength to reach that coveted finish line. The exhilarating feeling of victory washes over you as you envision crossing it first. But suddenly, without warning, the finish line stretches further away, taunting you. Fatigue grips your body, and doubt creeps into your mind, making the thought of giving up seem like the only option in that moment of despair.

In the midst of this struggle, I turned to prayer, seeking clarity and strength. Then, the Lord spoke to me, reminding me, “A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.” — James 1:8 (KJV). This wisdom resonated deeply, urging me to remain focused and steadfast, despite the challenges ahead.

Double-mindedness often leads to a state of instability in our thoughts and beliefs. It is a constant struggle between faith and doubt, where one moment, we are fully convinced of our convictions, and the next, we find ourselves gripped by uncertainty. In moments like these, I turn to God and ask Him to examine my heart and mind, seeking clarity and strength. It’s important to acknowledge that many of us experience similar fluctuations in our faith journey. We can find comfort in sharing these struggles, reminding ourselves that it’s part of the human experience to wrestle with our beliefs and seek a steadfast foundation.

“But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.” (James 1:6 KJV)

Think about it: The individual has no right or wrong answer. They make rules up as they go or change them whenever they want to suit themselves. I don’t want any waiving within me!

If you are dealing with someone like this, you understand the frustration it causes.

Our only option is to pray without getting tangled up in the confusion.

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